Friday, January 1, 2010

New Thoughts for a New Year

"I complain that the years fly past, but then I look in a mirror and see that very few of them actually got past."


"It's like this. Father Time keeps pitching the years at us. We swing and miss at a few. We hit a few out of the park. We try not to take any called strikes."


"In the end, who among us does not choose to be a little less right to be a little less lonely."


"Why would the Lord have made me a passing stranger in someone's life if He thought I could not spare a friendly greeting?"


"The best solution seldom requires that someone be right and someone else be wrong."


"One gives up much to become a parent, made easier when two give it up."


"Sometimes the shortest distance between two points is a winding path walked arm in arm."


"I enjoy both company and solitude, and in the company of my solitude, I find both."


"It takes a while, but eventually a child thinks to ask, "When I was hellbent for disaster, who were the obstacles in my path?"


"And yet, parenting teens is so often about having the good judgment to withhold one's better judgment."


"Any occasion that requires a gift requires an enthusiastic appreciation of the gift."


Today's Question on Family Correctness: As an uncle or aunt, you are required to give unreciprocated gifts to a niece or nephew until he or she --

a. graduates from high school
b. graduates from college
c. gets a paying job
d. starts collecting social security


~ Robert Brault

17 comments:

Randi said...

Hee hee...I loved Number 1! Very few of my years get past me because with each year, my roadblock is larger and larger. :)

I also really loved the passing stranger and the winding path insights.

It's been a joy to me to see my teens grow into lovely adults who were happy that I was an obstacle in their paths. I saw a plaque in someone's home last night that said "Mothers and Daughters get along best when Daughters Become Mothers."

Can I add an "e" to your choices on the Family Correctness survey?

e. When they have reached high school and have still never learned the words "thank" and "you."

Jan said...

I was so glad to see you here today! (made me smile - and since I've been pretty sick, that has been more of a rarity lately -- thank goodness this too is passing!)

Loved the thought about the teens and obstacles - I have 2 now that have seen and appreciated the obstacle that I was. Still one to go - maybe sometime!! Thanks for an uplift today.

Maria said...

Happy New Year!
I love this one, Robert:
"Sometimes the shortest distance between two points is a winding path walked arm in arm."

This is one of the many reasons why I'm five minutes late almost everywhere.

Your parenting quotes are right on!
Parenting requires 'amazing Grace!'

I like what Randi wrote about Mothers and Daughters too :)
Hoping Jan feels better...
My 85 yr. old father is visiting and has the terrible cough that's going around ...
Thanks for the surprise post for the New Year!
Be Healthy ~
Maria

Robert Brault said...

Randi,
Greetings and Happy New Year. Yes, the missing Thank Yous. You'd think also that a nephew or niece might consider reciprocating just once over an 18-21 year span. None of mine ever did, and I say that with confidence that I won't enbarrass anyone, since none read this blog, either. Ah, the loneliness of the long-distance uncle.

Jan,
My hearfelt best wish for a quick and full recovery and for another year of pleasant surprises from the grandkids. I'm delighted to be the cause of a smile.

Maria,
My get-well best to your dad. No male in my ancestry has ever lived past 81, so if I get to be 85, I'll be pleased to say, "I cough, therefore I am." Hope you're bearing up under the winds and cold of the north country.

smiles all,
rb
Lake Wales, Florida (grin)

Ken Devine said...

Hi Robert. It's a nice surprise to have some quotes from you.

Not one single year got past me and I mirror Randi in suggesting that I was the biggest obstacle for the good of my children. "Tell your friends that your dad is unreasonable and blame me for everything. They'll understand and won't hold it against you".

This one played a part in many a scene..."And yet, parenting teens is so often about having the good judgment to withhold one's better judgment."

Ah! Those wonderful days never to return...which is what makes them wonderful even though I'd like to re-run a few.

Hope that book is coming on nicely.

Ken

Daisy said...

I love the ones about being right and wrong.. they are so true.

I have softened over the years, and have realized most times it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong, as long as you're connected, together and having fun.

Daisy

Robert Brault said...

Ken,
I wonder how effective your "unreasonable" pose actually was. Your blog reveals the most reasonable person one could ever meet. My best New Year's wishes to you and the whole cast of characters.

Daisy,
You do come across as "connected, together and having fun," not to mention inquiring, independent and pretty darn right most of the time. Great to hear from you. Happy New Year.

smiles,
rb

Maria said...

Thank you for the well wishes for my Dad... He's hunkered down back at his lil' house in central NY. Wish he were here with us... but he does love his independence!
Happy writing & Enjoy Florida!
~Maria

Anonymous said...

Sometimes amusing, always thought-provoking. Thanks for coming back. Be well. ~donkimrey

Wendy (Give Love Create Happiness) said...

Robert,

I found your site today through the Quote Garden and have really enjoyed reading it. Thank you for sharing. Today I posted one of your quotes with a link to your site http://www.givelovecreatehappiness.com/1/post/2010/01/finding-happiness.html
Thank you for your inspiring words!

Robert Brault said...

Maria, Don
Thanks, as always, for the comment.

Wendy,
Welcome. Took a peek at your site and enjoyed both the commentary and the photos. A bright and cheerful place!

smiles all,
rb

splendid said...

dear robert
i too found you through the quote garden today!
" The way he treats his body,you'd think he was renting."
It is lovely to meet you!
i was looking for quotes about the body~i especially agree with those of yours about massages.

Raj said...

Pleasure to see your input Robert for so many people. I personally feel that sharing helps all of us - in pleasure & pain !! Regards

http://raj-diary-blog.blogspot.com/

Robert Brault said...

splendid,

My apologies for only now noticing your comment. Welcome. I guess the reason we must believe that the body is reunited with the soul in heaven is that it wouldn't be heaven without massage.

Raj,
I am delighted to have this opportunity to share and just hope I can keep coming up with things that folks like you appreciate. Thanks.

smiles,
rb

Anonymous said...

14,

You have opened a new window of light to me. Thank you.

Robert Brault said...

Anon,

14? I count only 13. If you mean the last one, I wonder if you're the giver or the receiver.

smiles,
rb

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