Thursday, March 25, 2010

Snippets from my E-Mail

To Don:

I agree that we are close kin in regard to faith, godseekers both. And your theory that a person is a cynic in inverse proportion to his former idealism is certainly spot on. But we two are not so much cynics, I suspect, as pilgrims to a lost shrine.



To Chris:

I did read your piece on the crosses in the pines. I’m more inclined to see the hand of God in the pines themselves than in the “crosses.” But you present this well. You write a simple narrative that accomplishes its purpose without being the least insistent. You have a nice hand at painting a word picture, and I like the way, after painting it, you don't hang a heavy lesson on us. You simply hang the picture on the wall and say "Cool, eh?”



To Mary A:

I cannot offer you words of wisdom, for you are now wiser than I. I have never lost a loved one so suddenly and with so little chance to ready my emotions. But I can tell you that you now begin the journey in life for which your mom prepared you, and you must trust that God would not have taken her if He did not feel you ready. You have not lost your mom's love and support; you will feel her love upon you always -- and most powerfully when you most need it -- and you will find support in the memory of the countless encouragements she gave you. You will be quite amazed at the moments in your life when you find her by your side.



To Tyler, a student:

Okay, you asked for it.

By far the greatest influence on me as a young man was Thoreau, not just “Walden” but the essays, “Civil Disobedience” and “Life Without Principle.” I believe Thoreau is more politically relevant than ever today. In Philosophy, you want to go right back to Plato and steep yourself in the Dialogues. As a godseeker, make sure you read Dostoyevsky, especially “The Possessed” and “The Brothers Karamazov.” And, for a real trek into self-discovery, find yourself a copy of Saul Bellow’s, “Henderson the Rain King.”



To Usama:

Thank you for your kind interest. I think that the great happiness in life is to find someone to whom you can express your feelings openly. Indeed, some things, like kindness and gratitude, exist only in their expression.



To Celeste:

Thanks so much. Emerson and Thoreau are my gods and C. S. Lewis my favorite Christian apologist. I've also heard of Twain, Einstein and Churchill. Being placed among them is further circumstantial evidence that I'm a dead white male. If you really put my quotes in your husband's lunch everyday, I assume he likes liverwurst (woulda said baloney, but it seemed too obvious.)



To Eric, a U.S. serviceman in Afghanistan:

Supposedly, there are no more than six degrees of separation between any two human beings. Whatever the number of degrees between us used to be, it is now just one. I am proud to know you. Thanks for the good-will vibes, and I return them with whole heart. I send you a fellow stranger's sincere wish for your well-being and safety. Thanks much for what you're doing and may the New Year bring you pleasant surprises.



To Whitney:

Sometimes my attempts at humor are a little clumsy. I wanted to make clear that I am no more God's agent than anyone else, but that seems to be what you meant, so I'm okay with that. Yes, I accept the existence of God. His presence in our everyday lives is what I'm seeking to get a handle on. Most of my thoughts on God are attempts to suggest such a presence, but, for me, it's still more a quest than a confidence.



To Bobby:

Thanks so much. No, there's no previous book. My past work exists only in a few anthology collections, magazine archives and newspaper microfiche. I started the blog with the idea of bringing it all together but quickly diverted to writing new thoughts, which seems to be what readers prefer.




To Patricia:

I'm pleased to hear from you. In '61, while in the U.S. Army, I sold a couple items to Reader's Digest and was hooked. Although my writing has always been avocational, I've done it all my life and was able to make a steady side income from it before the internet ended the paying market for the sort of things I do: quips, anecdotes, thoughts, short humor, light verse, personal reminiscence, op-ed pieces.



To my namesake, Bob Brault, the American poet:

Since you asked, I'm 71 but can still pass for 110. I’ve spent my life making the rounds of the Hartford insurance companies, programming everything from unit record wire boards to internet websites -- the whole gamut. Sounds like you turned out pretty well for a beat poet. Were you the inventor of rap or what? You were ahead of your times, my friend. Strikes me that you could be big on today's scene. Grow long whiskers and get an agent.



My first communication with Ken Devine:

I've noticed, looking at your Brittany photos, that you've turned a very French-looking overgrown landscape into a manicured setting -- the British compulsion toward very proper lawns and gardens, I suppose. I think I would have left the grounds as they were, but that's the Frenchman in me, happy to sit in clutter while honing fine sentences.


~~ Robert Brault

13 comments:

khushi said...

I agree with what you have said to Mary about losing a loved one. Losing a loved one is very painful. And to lose the person suddenly, with no warning is traumatic. I lost my husband to an unexpected cardiac arrest. He was only 39 yrs old. Healthy, active, with never a sick bone in his body. Needless to say I was devastated. I thought I was not ready to face life. But you are right in saying that God takes a person from our lives only when He knows we are ready and able to stand on our own.

It's been a long haul since then. But the wonderful memories have sustained me through all the ups and downs. I do miss him, especially now as our first grandchild has arrived.

karen said...

I've not much to say after Khushi. Her experience takes my breath away. I haven't ever experienced deep loss in my lifetime - I've been very fortunate - but at times when I've contemplated the inevitable I've had a faith that everything will work out as it should, and that our loved ones are never lost to us. Not having any personal experience with it, however, (and always contemplating someone else's demise, and never my own...) your words rang very true with me. You're not such an old cynic after all, are you? It made me like you very much.

Sue said...

I loved reading these responses of yours to various letters sent by your readers. Your wisdom rings true to me, and I especially liked your words to Chris and Mary A.

I'm on my way to read "Henderson the Rain King," the one of your suggestions for Tyler with which I am entirely unfamiliar. Thanks.

=)

patriciapaddey said...

Robert - Congratulations on the "surge." That demonstrates a happy truth in itself, I think; that our world still hungers for truth and wisdom - and we know it when we see it, even when it's expressed in tidy little 20-words-or-less packages.

Robert Brault said...

khushi,
My speculations on the subject of loss are quite dwarfed by your experience. I'm saddened to hear of the tragedy in your life, but I join with others here in taking hope from your resilience. God bless.

Karen,
Since you asked, yes, I'm an old cynic after all, but I'm very likable for other mistaken impressions people have of me. (smile)

Sue,
"Henderson The Rain King", I should warn you, is about a middle-aged man's deliverance from male angst, so I might be a little biased on its merit.

patriciapaddey,
Thanks. If you allow the reader to infer any truth or wisdom he or she wishes. you can seem pretty smart.

smiles all,
rb

Marlene said...

Robert, although said to someone else I found comfort in your words to Mary. I lost my grandson to drowning 2 years ago and it has been a struggle, I am going to also share your words with my daughter, his mother. I believe she will find some comfort also.

Robert Brault said...

Marlene,
Sometimes the truest sympathy is expressed by not knowing what to say. That is my state at the moment.

rb

(There are paintings of yours I will look at with new appreciation.)

Raj said...

Just a note of deep admiration Robert - for sharing & caring in such fine fashion. Its said that you can perhaps handle grief yourself, but you need friends to share the joys. Its always comforting & inspiring to visit here. Grateful

Robert Brault said...

Raj,
Khushi and Marlene are friends who share with us regularly their joy of life -- and now we learn that this "joie de vivre" is their response to grief. It is inspiring indeed.

smiles,
rb

Ken Devine said...

Hi Robert
I should have called earlier and caught sight of everything you have removed. My loss!
I enjoyed reading your response to readers.You seem to have touched the lives of so many people...mine included.

Surely there is middle ground between compilation and new material. Am I the only one who finds it difficult to find the right quote for what's currently needed? I promise I won't mention the book again (or did I promise that the last time?)

The books of your youth were not known to the likes of one such as I who was content with Superman. I'll have to have a peek when opportunity presents itself.

I was touched by your response to Marlene and I suspect it will get an airing pretty soon. I'm of the age when those around me are struggling and I know I'll be lost for words.

Thanks for your wise words.

I will have a wild section in my manicured garden and will think of you each time I'm tempted to change it.

Robert Brault said...

Ken,
Thank you, my friend. On the book, I'll just say this: if you will get all my stuff together in a book, I'll buy three copies. And if you will illustrate it, I'll buy the whole printing.

Your Superman reference reminds me of something I once said about Churchill. "Backing Churchill into a corner was like backing Clark Kent into a phone booth."

I did not intend my response to Marlene as a aphorism, but I guess it reads that way. Anyway, it's true.

And, yes, we all should keep a small wild section in our manicured garden, just to see what grows there.

smiles,
rb

Maria said...

I smiled through all of these, Robert...{as I read them from the last to the first}
and then...
was left teary eyed with your email to Mary A...
understanding her loss since my own mother died suddenly...31 yrs ago.
~*~ and I am quite amazed at the moments in my life when I find her by my side ~*~

Thank you* Maria

Robert Brault said...

Maria,
In the sense of loss is the memory that sustains us; they are two sides of a coin, I guess. Thanks for sharing.

smiles,
rb

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