"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things."
Monday, June 21, 2010
This, That and a Grammar Lesson
"We happily accumulate possessions and happily give them away. It is only possessing them that gives no happiness."
"It is not that the honest pursuit of one's selfish interests cannot be a social good. It is that if one is selfish, why would one be honest?"
"According to science, the universe began as a swirl of gas that, as it cooled, spun off the Ten Commandments."
"As an experiment, I have trapped some cooling gas in a bottle, and I'm waiting to see if a universe develops."
"We look at the smiling faces in an old family photo, and we think how happily innocent we were, which is exactly what those smiling faces wanted us to think."
"There is no expert on what happiness is but many on what it might have been."
God sends the dawn
that we might see
the might-have-beens
that still might be.
"If the light goes out when you close a refrigerator door, do the smiles vanish when you close a family photo album?"
"Observing your child at make-believe, you realize that the most underrated of family values is its entertainment value."
"As parents, we guide by our unspoken example. It is only when we're talking to them that our kids aren't listening."
"The clash between child and adult is never so stubborn as when the child within us confronts the adult in our child."
"There is a moment between child and parent when the child first realizes that someday this person is going to need serious help."
Grammar Anyone?
If you say "hone in" instead of "home in," have you ever seen a honing pigeon?
If you say "different than" instead of "different from," do you think a horse differs than a pig?
If you say, "between you and I" instead of "between you and me," do you say "between you, I and the fencepost?"
~~ Robert Brault
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Just a note of deep gratitude Robert for all the pearls you continue to share, so effortlessly & beautifully. Am sure there are loads of good wishes just flowing towards you. .."There is a moment between child and parent when the child first realizes that someday this person is going to need serious help." Thanks again
Made my day by finding you here, and as always, there is something that speaks directly to my heart. Our children (and many, many others) learn more from our example than anything that we might ever say to them. I think of a cartoon dog hearing a person going 'blah blah blah' and that's what I think our children hear much of the time. But when they see us doing right? That's where the lessons are. With love in the picture, those lessons stick. That's why a loving friendship makes all the difference.
Thanks for a great start to my day.
So much for taking time off, eh?
For your continuing contributions, I am grateful....
I read your blog daily...looking for those nuggets of insight you provide.
Thanks.
I love this group of quotes too much to pick a favorite...and the little poem is one I will keep.
Your posts never fail to meet my expectations! (No pressure.)
;)
Hi Robert.
There are some real gems here.
I must admit to feeling happy at the moment with some of my possessions but I'm happiest when involved with giving.
Why indeed would we be honest if being selfish? You state the obvious so simply and beautifully.
Trapped gas could lend support for one theory I suppose.
My favourites are the children quotes...especially "As parents, we guide by our unspoken example. It is only when we're talking to them that our kids aren't listening." So true!
My own kids are experiencing the last kids quote about the realisation that serious help will be needed soon.
Thanks for allowing comments Robert.
Forgot to mention the verse...it's tremendous. How do you manage to so consistently and effectively fit words to such powerful thoughts and emotions?
I am so glad I came across your blog today! What a talent you are. I especially appreciate your "different from." A long, long time ago a teacher mentioned that if you think of the "f"s in "different," you'll know that it's followed by a word beginning with "f," which I've done lo these many decades.
Mr. Brault (may I call you Bob?), I swear you are one of the most clever and original writers I read. You always give me cause to pause and ponder. I see a lot of your stuff out and about, scattered hither and yon in other works and sort of puff up with pride that I can claim: "Hey. I know that guy!
P.s. If you have time, I'd really appreciate your visiting my web site & offering suggestions, critique, etc.www.Godscomebackkids.com.
P.P.S. I hope you won't ever seriously consider quitting writing. No one I've read even comes close to offering the twist you put on any subject you touch. ~donkimrey
My favorite is "for all intensive purposes."
Raj,
My thoughts are imperfect pearls and, of late, far from effortless, but you encourage me to keep at it.
Jan,
Yes, it's a truth that's been expressed many times in many ways, but it can always stand repeating. Our kids do not follow our teachings; they follow us.
Marshall,
Thanks. Although I've left up the "Gone Fishing until Aug 15" sign, I've been finding enough stuff in my work file to post occasionally.
Sue,
If I meet your expectations, it is only because you have kindly kept them modest. Thank you.
Ken,
Thanks, as always, for reading so thoroughly and thoughtfully. You are a good friend. I think of it not so much as "allowing" comments as "soliciting" them, which is why I turn off the comments button once in a while. But it's no fun tossing thoughts to the wind, I discover.
Barbara,
Thank you -- and a heartfelt welcome to the blog. The strict usage of "different from" can get you into word entanglements from which there is literally no escape, but it's a small price to pay for correctness, I figure.
Don/Anon,
Your site is always a treat to visit, and I urge all to do so. As a writer, you are a breezy, conversational stylist who needs no critique from me. Your assessments of my own efforts remain wildly over-generous and yet studiously objective, if I do say so myself.
Kate Si,
Yes, "for all intensive purposes" is another oft-heard attempt at trying to say something by saying something else.
smiles all,
rb
All,
I urge you to click on the name of newcomer Barbara Backus, above, and pay a visit to her website. Her latest post is a collection of my thoughts, true enough, but her archives compensate by offering a literate and reasoned view of the world about us.
smiles,
rb
OH HI ROBERT!!!
With the busy time of school closing for the season... I missed your blog update!
Well... back to enjoying my second cup with some blog friends! ... and I may just be making a new one over at Barbara's!
Her post about the NY Times article is a gem!
Now... your quotes here have me smiling again!
"If the light goes out when you close a refrigerator door, do the smiles vanish when you close a family photo album?"
This one has been especially meaningful with the wedding past us... but the joy lingers on in my mind and heart...
I keep opening the "refrigerator door" for more smiles :D {and cupcake leftovers}
Whenever I think of creation or look up at the night sky... I often think of this scripture, as God speaks to Job... "Can you bring forth the constellations in their seasons or lead out the Bear with its cubs?"
"There is a moment between child and parent when the child first realizes that someday this person is going to need serious help."
Oh dear... this happens now when I drive!
* * *
Robert, thank you for these wonderful treasures to think on ~
Wishing you and Joan a lovely, lovely summer!
~Maria
Maria,
Thanks much. You've certainly earned a summer of relaxation. Thought of you yesterday, as Joan and I motored up I-87, taking grandson Tony to Ft. Ticonderoga. We're on the Champlain Islands this morning. I may yet take a summer sabbatical from posting, but so far it keeps drawing me back.
smiles,
rb
Ft. Ticonderoga...yes... we went there as a family years ago ... {a summer of local day trips}
There's so much history there!
It's important for all of us to be reminded of the cost of freedom. What sacrifices!
I am so grateful to our service men and women ...past and present~
* * *
There are all kinds of amusement parks up that way too...
{We tried very hard to avoid amusement parks - but sometimes we let the kids win :D
LOVE YOUR QUOTES, LOOK FORWARD TO THE NEXT TIME. THANKS.
Maria,
With us, the grandson always wins. We just follow along. (smile)
rose,
Thank you. Been on the road for a while, so not sure when the "next time" will be.
rb
I'm always so happy when I check your blog and see an update. Your words have helped me more than you'll ever know. Thanks!!
Karla,
Thank you. What's helpful, I think, is to discover that someone else sees life the way we do.
smiles,
rb
All I can say is that I am happy to be reading a new post from you and that you have comments turned on. :o)
Maxie,
Thanks -- leaving them turned on from now on.
smiles,
rb
Thank you for your words of wisdom~ I so enjoy reading what you have to say! May God Bless you and those who not only find your blog, but they take a moment to read what words you so simply express.
I've been following you for a short while now and thought I'd say "hi". Love your blog and love your thoughts. The one about the adult in the child spoke to me today - my three year old certainly has one that likes to use my pearls of wisdom against me when I'm being inconsistent.
Freda'a Legacy, Katie
Thank you both -- and welcome. I like to think that I offer enjoyment. Readers have to supply their own wisdom. Katie, it sounds like you have some interesting years ahead of you.
smiles,
rb
there is difference between every thing so Many be alike but none the same ... so y do u try to differentiate when difference exists by nature
luk 2 ur hrt
My point exactly -- a horse differs from a pig by nature; a horse does not differ than a pig by bad grammar.
smiles,
rb
Hi Robert,
I discovered you quite by chance whilst searching for quotes about Angels. I love your quotes, they are so inspiring.
One of my favourites is time being a figure of 8. That is so true.
:) Jo
Jo (angelontour),
Thanks so much. It's nice to be discovered by someone looking for angels. This is a place, I'd like to think, where angels don't fear to tread.
smiles,
rb
your post is very thought provking. so many things said and true.
Linda
Finally decided to click on your link from quotegarden.com...... I am loving it.
Rose,
Thanks for the follow-up comment.
lindamt,
Thanks. You arrive as I depart for a spell. Hope you'll take a leisurely stroll through the archives.
smiles,
rb
I can not even begin to tell you how much I loved your work here and how I got here is amamzing to me. I have no idea. I will be following you. Your work brilliant. You have a beautiful gift.
Bless You
Lisa
Lisa,
Thanks so much. Your blog, both the photographs and the captioned sentiments, are beautiful beyond description, and I encourage everyone here to take a peek.
smiles,
rb
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